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The GOOD Kind of Procrastination
Many people come to me wanting help overcoming their procrastination. My first question to them is this:
Is it the good kind of procrastination or the bad kind?
“Curtis, what in the world is the GOOD kind of procrastination?”
I’m happy you asked. 🙂
There are different reasons for procrastination. Some are fear based, and those are the ones that I help my clients overcome.
But procrastination can also be a signpost that your actions and your values are out of sync. In other words, procrastination can reveal that you’ve committed to something that isn’t important to you.
For example, for years and years I pursued music. I put together bands, I wrote and recorded songs, I took guitar lessons. It was my “dream” to be a successful musician, and everyone around me knew it.
Yet I procrastinated 90% of the time. Why?
What I ultimately learned was that years earlier I’d created an identity for myself as a musician. I fell in love with the IDEA of playing music. But my heart wasn’t in it. I rarely enjoyed it, and it was always a struggle for me.
Procrastination was a warning sign that I’d made a choice that didn’t serve me. It was like a blinking red warning light that something was out of whack in my life.
When I finally stopped pursuing music, it was such a relief. I felt like I’d been released from prison–my own prison that I’d created out of an expectation I had for myself.
So before you try to “overcome” your procrastination, take a look at where it’s coming from.
If you find yourself procrastinating (especially if it’s ongoing procrastination), ask yourself these questions:
1. What specifically am I procrastinating?
This may seem obvious, but often it’s not. “I procrastinate my work.” Okay, so what kinds of work, exactly? Be specific.
2. Why am I procrastinating?
Don’t settle for the first answer that comes to you, especially if it doesn’t contain an insight. Keep asking yourself (lovingly, not like an interrogator) until you learn something about the source of your procrastination.
3. What choice will serve me the most?
Remember my music example? If I’d asked this question and been open to an honest answer, I would have seen much sooner how music wasn’t serving me.
Trying to overcome your procrastination without first understanding where it’s coming from can make you feel worse by adding layers of guilt on top of a choice that isn’t serving you in the first place.
©2008 Curtis G. Schmitt
I’ve identified 3 different types of procrastination. Each type has a different solution. If you try to overcome one type of procrastination with the wrong kind of solution, you’ll fail and frustrate yourself.
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[…] Your answers may lead you to the conclusion that the result is not important to you. In which case you need to ask yourself why this task is on your to-do list at all. (I’ve written more about this subject in a previous post.) […]